Looking at patterns and changing those is a good thing. I noticed in myself always correcting or adding information when others opine. Pretty disrespectful. But at least we are looking at these patterns and admitting that they are or have been a problem. All we can do is to acknowledge them and change them. Nothing wrong with becoming a better person, right?

Ps if you like hot spicy food try marinating chicken in Jamaican jerk sauce. Please don't take this as disrespectful wink


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden