I would tend to agree with LA. I think that might be too much, too soon. That said, I can FULLY understand why you would want to say that - trust me, holy crap do I understand.

I think I that you can eventually glide into that conversation - but not all at once. No need to rush to a close. I pretty much figured out that there are no "magic" words that I can weave together that can clean the slate for me - no matter how well thought out or planned they may be. And believe me when I say I have been building the script in my head. Sadly, as the vets tell us - I think we just have to focus on actions. And in this case, your action of LISTENING in therapy may take you miles further down the road than talking. Counterintuitive, but I am learning that DB is basically the definition of counterintuitive.

Crimson