I'm not a DB vet but I'll weigh in:

If she goes to counseling, sit back and listen. Let her take the lead. Learn what you can about what she's feeling and take the time to think about it. Your staetment above may scare her, alot.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss