My wife and I have been married for 10 yrs, together for 12. We have had trouble communicating in the past, with work kids, and little time it has cause us trouble. Over the last few months, after talking to her about the time we spend together (or lack of), and getting little response from her. I felt that I gave up on talking to her, I retreated and basically didn't act like I really wanted her around. Our contact was limited, We talked at Christmas and she said she felt she was done and wanted a divorce. I realized that I was being selfish and pushing her away. I realized that I made a mistake and wanted to work on our marriage but she has given up and wants a divorce. I'm at a loss for what to do, I know from previous experience pressure doesn't work, and I don't want to apply any. I would appreciate any help I can get from the forum to help me win my wife back and prove to her that she is what I want. Please help!
