"I need to step up as a parent, you need a break. Let me drive for a while. Do what you need for you, and I support you"

Go for it!

I know what you mean about the sons. I think S19 blames me for dad leaving so we tangle quite often. But I must admit, he's a lot like his dad so I may also be reacting to that. It's all so complicated.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss