DB vets Need some help/Feedback please!!! Ok, So I go back to MC in 13 days with W. I want to make sure I go in to this session as prepared as possible. While there I was thinking of saying something like:
I completely respect your decision to move out. I only hope that when you decide that you are ready for a relationship or to start dating you would consider giving me a chance to be the one you date.
When we first met we weren’t "in love". We started as 2 people who were mutually attracted to one another and found out we had a lot in common. We moved fast, maybe too fast by living together right away and never gave us a chance to just date.
A few months later we realized we fell in love with each other, and I don’t regret any of that. Nothing is so different now from 7 years ago. I am the same man you met then, only a better version.
What harm can it do if we started over from day one and see where it leads us? No pressure on anything else [no pressure on living together or being married], just us dating. I can pick you up, or we can meet out, or you can come to the house.
Now since I have 13 days I am looking for all the input on tweaks/changes to that statement I can get. Or, do I not even lay that on the table? I figure this session could be a game changer, no matter what is going on in her mind when we go in.
M 33 W 29 S 4 M 5 T 7 11/7/11 Separation, W moves in with parents 12/1/11 W: "IDLY, I'm not coming back, it's over" 1/7/12 D Bomb Dropped