Indecision and the affair continues (Part 2)

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One other question since I'm reaching this key point.

I assume everyone agrees I should not reach out to OW? I have her email address or could text her. I'm not even close to doing it...but is there any thing I could say to help my cause?

I don't think so...I think it gives her too much power. However, maybe there's something I say once I know I have even less to lose? Still thinking it's probably too risky.

"Hi, I'm H's wife. I feel like we should know each other from being in this "threesome" over the past several months. I'm sure H will tell you that we've decided to separate. I'm tired of all the lies and I'm sure you are too. This will be a really tough time for our family and I'd appreciate it if you could give H time to be here for his girls to help them deal with this".