N...
That statement hit home with me....right to the gut...
Im amways imagining that my H isnt interested in me because OW is doing what i should have...makeing him happy, and why would they give that up??...he treats her well, she treats him well...theyll live happily ever after...thats the most painfull..and if i were in YOUR position id fight like hell...

Me:48 H:42
M: 18 yrs.
S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H
D bomb: 9/9/11
OW confirmed 10/30/11
D papers filed 11/01/11
S15 S21(Special needs) S28

Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...