Cat,

There has been no constant rehashing. My understanding is that wgh's REPLY to his w's suggestion that she move out earlier was a good idea was at absingle public conversation he initiated after she blindsided him with a unilateral change in plans contrary to what he agreed to. Perhaps if you read more of the thread it will better put things in context.

As for setting a good example and being positive and strong for his kids, wgh is definitely on the right track. I'm just not seeing the dramatic this-will-ruin-the-kids-forever standard stuff coming from him at all, quite the contrary. What am I missing?


Best,
Oldtimer