KO sorry I was driving while I typed earlier. I was trying to tell you that you should stop and look at why you are giving her the info. Is it to put fear in her? It is best to let life teach her the hard lessons instead of you. You don't want her to come back just because of finances, right? I was so angery when I was served that that is exactly what I did. It back fired. Now I just cooperate and say nothing about the ongoing D. I know it makes no sense, but I have no control. Hang in there


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden