Retrouvaille means change

[angel61]

and to update: we have been gpoing to almost every post (except for the first one) and each post weekend has brought us closer, and has made us more open.

There is still a lot more to do; he doesn't really like to do the dialogue, we still have issues with complete transparency, i battel trsut issues and the memories of being hurt, and rejected. We sometimes go back to our old ways of arguing. But we have committed to each other that we are going to do all we can to preserve our marriage and hold on to our vows, put God in our lives and decide to love.