What Do I Do? Help!

[leopoldstotch]

Thx James. Iam hanging in there. I've come to realize after last that my W has a huge chunk of ice surrounding her heart. I started going back to counseling last night and her exact words to me were " are you doing this to pick up the pieces of your and move on to be with someone else or are you trying to do this to get us back together? She then said that I fooled her twice before and that there wouldn't be a third time." I think I handled it well and all I said was Im doing it for myself.
It was that moment last night that I realised thatId better detach from her because its clear she has clearly moved on. I know it wont be easy but I know its absolutely necessary. Hopefully Sandi can chime in here with her words of wisdom.