Hi fellow Military wife,
I am really sorry to hear that your husband is deploying for so long.

I am actually Canadian so our rules are a bit different. Plus my SO and I were only engaged. We were supposed to be married April 7,2012

Could be why I haven't been getting a lot of support as well.

I just feel like every move I make is so crucial at this point as he is away, so i think each thing resonates more?

I have read DestinyUnknown's situation. And there was another woman's thread that is actually the one Google caught when I found this board. Her situation was almost exactly the same as mine except she and her H were married for a short time.

I will read up on your sitch