OKay - maybe its not DBing but I will try to analyze her dream
"She was on an outcropping overlooking our street. I was putting the trash out and I was talking on the phone to another woman. I was telling her I was suceeding in manipulating my W to where I want her."
She sees you a a good H, after all you are taking out the trash. But she does not trust you. She thinks if she lets you back in you will disappoint her.
You can show her, over time, that your changes are real
Maybe Brklyn. This does make sense. Hope you're having a good day! thx