Things are sounding good WHG. I totally agree that it is not a bad thing W got madder. Also agree that you should make space FOR YOURSELF if W doesn't move. As for the Amazon Prime thing, try to stop that sort of thing. Express shipping on Amazon is cheap. Cut the strings.
Why do you think there might not be a rabbit hole in your own back yard?
There is a great book about Lifetraps that might be useful. Take the focus off of W. Ask always what works FOR YOU right now.