Thank you Purgatory for the response. It feels so much better just to be heard. I can't really talk to my friends and family as they are all just like "leave him, now!!" full of emotion of course.
This is just a bit of a pickle because I am worried, if I just let stuff stay as they are and we don't talk till he gets back... what happens if he walks in the door and is like "why are you packed? No you can't stay till May 1st.. get out now!" then I am not prepared.
But I totally agree with you on all aspects. I guess I'm just worried I will be up the creek without a paddle come the end of Feb.
And I don't have concrete evidence that there is another woman. Just the evidence that one was talking to him in an inappropriate way (or she didn't know about me... which is probably more likely the case) and on dating sites (but in A-stan I doubt he did more than just talk to the girls off there.
Thanks again for your reply. I was so happy to have something to read to calm my nerves this AM.
