I'm in a similar position - trying to drag my heels as much as I can; not wanting to help her make this happen but not wanting to make her headspace any worse than it already is...


Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12