Depression or not, if the spending is creating a financial hardship then you should probably have a conversation with your W. Maybe it is time to separate finances? Just try not to be "confrontational" about it. Stick to the facts, seek to understand, offer some possible solutions, elicit solutions from your W and see where you land.
Good luck!
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