first off, I did pack up the boys things for him (because I didn't want my boys to be without anything they might possibly need for a week and my H would forget something, I'm sure)
Why did you really do this? What would the worst outcome be if you didn't pack for the boys?
I used to do this exact thing and thought it made me invaluable to the family. I now realize my poor judgment.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss