Hi P,

I think I must be the queen of referring to old posts but this one may resonate with you, it did with me and I have no military history.

Spiers doctrine

Post 1859449

I look for things in other people's experience that can help me make sense of this sitch we all find ourselves in and push me to be a better person.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss