Thanks for everyone's support and guidance. It has been 7 months since my sitch began. In August I remember feeling so depressed and hopeless that dying was the way to go. Today not so much. I am today surprisingly ok. I have gathered all info requested by W's L and have even asked W to make copies for me. She has cooperated. I want to tell you that it gets better. Today I felt pretty whole. I have hope for the future I even questioned wether I want W back. The answer right now is NO. I will not go back to my or her old ways he'll no.
For future reference it has taken me 5 months to feel almost normal and abel to work and concentrate. If you are a newbie I know you do not believe it will get better but it does. Really as I type this I cried a bit haven't in a while but not out of sadness . Thanks for been here for me
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”