No contact at all since Sunday. I've kept busy and have not let it bother me too much.

However - a question for anyone who has knowlege of depression. I've READ, though not on depth, that careless spending can be a symptom/side effect/manifestation of depression. There's been a lot of spending by my non working wife - the last 4-6 weeks I can understand with Christmas and her sisters wedding, but in the months before that it was fairly frivolous. I'm trying to decide if it warrants a confrontation or not.

If its something to do with possible depression then confrontation might not be smart. If its manipulative ("I'll show him, I'll spend so much he HAS to divorce me!") or malicious ("not going to give me the settlement I want? Fine I'll just spend it") then I might have to confront her about it.

Me: 36
Her: 35
Together 7/09
Married 8/7/10
Separate rooms since at least April 11
"I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11
She moves out of state/files 2/7/12
Dissolution final 5/12