Like kml said, GAL, get your finances in order, do whatever you need to do to be independant.
Quote:
Expect the best, plan for the worst, and prepare to be surprised. -- Denis Waitley
Originally Posted By: Nblost
I think the kids are powerful in this. Maybe I'm being overly dramatic, but I think looking your 4, 8 and 10 year old daughters in the faces and telling them you are leaving is going to be very hard. I'm sure any age is hard...but our girls are at such an idealistic stage. :-(
You're not being dramatic at all. My eldest daughter just got married this summer. I walked her down the aisle with pride, and with the knowledge that no matter what gets thrown in her and her H's way, M is a lifelong commitment. My W has a different take on it, but I'm still committed.
Or maybe I just should be committed
P.S. I'm not trying to take anything away from our courageous DB-ers who couldn't convince their spouses to commit. Ultimately, it takes commitment on both sides.
