Originally Posted By: kml
It's okay to continue to show him your friendship to see if he will come running back to you - he might, after all, you didn't think J was all that much competition. Just don't get stuck - live your life, keep your options open, don't get hung up.
Thanks Ellie.

I don't know that I am competent enough to say she isn't competition. RC isn't hung up on appearance. He is the kind of guy who looks at the inside, and I have no idea what her insides look like. lol

Just kidding. I guess I'm saying that she may be a good fit for him (if they can work out the 5 hour thing and the differences in religion). I don't really know her well enough to judge. She was there during a time when he was lonely and filled a void. Where that goes, only time will tell.

They could just have a strong connection and become friends only. Either way, I'm going to try to be his friend.

I will keep working on all the things you suggested....
Living Life
Keeping my options open
Avoid getting hung up
And keep working at this fitness thing I've been doing...if nothing else, I will be one hot chick! lol (totally kidding)

Time Time Time


Me 47
Ex H 46
Bomb 9/02
D final 3/04
Ex H now married to OW

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This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!