+1, my W tends to view my questions as complaints, comments as criticism, and any mild complaint as a world-ending crisis. Definitely see a pattern here.
Accuray
I think my wife was viewing things that way for quite some time before making and announcing her decision. I'm beginning to suspect that almost any time we had a differenece of opinion, she took it as being somehow invalidated. Though to be fair, I could very well have been often inelegant, without really meaning to, in how I put things.
Me: 36 Her: 35 Together 7/09 Married 8/7/10 Separate rooms since at least April 11 "I've decided I want a divorce" 12/5/11 She moves out of state/files 2/7/12 Dissolution final 5/12