Originally Posted By: 25yearsmlc

Guess I mean, let's not spend a lot of energy on mind reading them OR dream reading...

back to YOU!!! How are those GAL?? And the 180s?

We say this for a reason. Keeps your mind off the WAS and helps detach

and that makes you happier and busier and more attractive so you are MORE likely to win the spouse back

with GAL and 180s.....regardless

you are better off either way b/c if the spouse does NOT return and you have gotten a life and done your 180s and become the best catch you can...

you are better off that much faster anyhow....and you will be happier that much faster, period.


25 - good reminder!

BTW there is a newbie who I think could benefit from some of your hard won wisdom. He lives in Alaska and has a WAW. I thought you might be able to provide some perspective since you also used to live there. Here is the link to his thread: LINK

Rick - sorry about the hijack.


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