"It's so confusing. I want him to fall in love with me again. In a way it seems like flirting and doing other things that you do when you're first interested in someone would be a right move here. No?"
He does not what this from you right now. And IMHO, he is not flirting with you, her is testing you... Checking to see your reactions based on the strings he pulls.
Now, I could be wrong as I don't know you or him. But there is one thing I know for sure... He left!
So the olny thing you can do is live for you.
M: 42 - W: 41 - M: 18 - T: 23 - D:16 S:14 EA - July 2010 NC w/EA - Nov 2010 Piecing - Jan 2011 I ask for div - Jan 2012 Div papers filed - Mar 2012 I move out - July 2012 Divorce final - Nov 7, 2012