Give it a try- My GAL ideas have really been helped by meetup.com ....yup I know- sounds like a dating site : ) You plug in some basic info, interests ect & it will show you groups in your area with the same interests ... whether its sailing, board games, meditation, English bulldogs, or as simple as meeting a group of people on a regular basis to drink coffee.
I know the sitch sux.... I was counting the days in happy anticipation to come home from Afghanistan... & a month before I leave my W sends a "Dear John" email asking for a D. Seemed pretty heartless at the time...but I understand now why she did it, I forgive her. We can't change others, just ourselves. I'm giving my 180 & DB'ing 100 percent.... My family ( & me) are worth having the best ME possible. We make plenty of mistakes, but don't give up.
Take Care- Hang in there
P

(F.K.A. Broken422)

US 40's
M 17,T 19
2 BOYS 13,16
Divorced 4/2012
11/2011 W SAID SHE WANTS D

"When it is dark enough,you can see the stars"- Ralph Waldo Emerson