living in limbo

[learning2listen]

Mishka and Say..both of you seem to have the same insight I have been getting lately, my only concern is this seems to be such a long time...I mean he left in August...Maybe I am just too impatient,,

But he does seem more volatile of late, and I really havent spoken to him, except when I tried to clarify the "friendship" which really ticked him off...

I know alot of this is he has the ability literrally to tune everything out... but I would think eventually he will have to face it... which will probably just mean I am postponing the inevitable.. He will justify the d with the fact we dont talk... which is his doing.. so here I sit confused as to whether or not i am doing the right thing by detaching and not contacting...

Any advice from anyone out there would be so appreciated!