Sorry about your difficult day, overall you're doing great! Hold on to that. WRT your financial discussion with H, I would have it. It's carrot and stick. Your good attitude and all your positive changes are the carrot, and the bill coming due on the financials is the stick -- both will hopefully get him thinking more about the decisions he is making. Obviously you need to handle the discussion in DB fashion, but I get the sense you know how to do that.
Accuray
Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11 Start Reconcile: 8/15/11 Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced) In a New Relationship: 3/2015
