Oh and I should add... *IF* I CAN live with him until May. It may be too difficult. He would also have to agree that we are not allowed to bring people home. This OW and him would most likely continue their affair as she lives in our hometown too. He may not be willing to do that.
I just don't think that there is any way I could stay in the house if he was bringing her, or other women over.
I just thought that living together for a bit when he gets home and gets to decompress,.... maybe things will change?? Maybe his feelings will change?