Had another nice coaching session yesterday. We came up with a small plan of action. I have been feeling like if I'm going to have any chance of moving forward with my ex, then i need some face time. She's been saying that she will come by and see the dogs, etc, etc, for a few weeks, but hasn't made it by. So, we made a plan that I will take them to a park or something and let my ex know that I will be there and when and invite her to stop by. Hopefully, she'll say yes, but I've got to be prepared for the very real chance she says no or doesn't show up. That's ok. Depending on her response to my invitation, I can determine whether to extend another invitation in the future. I'm trying to decide whether to do it for this weekend, or what. I'll be out of town next weekend so that's out. It will be fairly cold this weekend, maybe like 55 degrees or so, so outside activities may not be the most comfortable. I do feel though, that it gives her a chance to see me on "neutral turf" so to speak. She can come if she wants, leave when she pleases and hopefully we can just have a nice time without talking about our R or anythign like that. Any thoughts on this from anyone?
