Sun & BF- I hope y'all are both on the west coast cause you're posts are really early in the morning (my eat coast time).... I hope y'all are sleeping and taking care of yourselves
Now, that being said- THANK YOU!!! I have tried to keep a positive outlook on all my issues. I truly believe in my heart, that him going overseas is a good things for our R. As cr@ppy as it will be for both of us- it's extra hard on him. I used to keep this in mind for all previous deployments: "We miss him, but he misses everything." I hope that will ring true for this separation time as well. BF you brought up a good point, H will be missing/thinking about the kids and he can't help but think of me along with them.... so that's a silver lining on my dark cloud.
Sun- I really hope that with a little time over there, his anger will start to subside and the positive memories of me will seep back in... then maybe, he will reach out to me as a source of comfort. He!!, he will want to call whenever possible to talk to the boys- guess who's gonna have to answer the phone? ME!!
BF- I like your theory that H is getting his sh!t in order to protect himself. He's actually said those exact words a few times (although it was in reference to $$ and me not taking the kids while he's gone)
*Please excuse my sailor's mouth... I was raised by one and married one*
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12