NLG- I feel for where you are, it [censored] but will get better. My WAW moved out 5 months ago and I have 3 kids. Their were countless sleepless nights and almost unbearable emotional pain but I think based on what I've read that the seperation is necessary if you two are ever to R.

Have you read DR? Your R patterns seem pretty up and down so I would suggest you try to detach emotionally as much as possible from your W right now and give yourself a short time line goal, say a month and re-evaluate how you are doing. Do you want to R?
I did not read your previous thread so I apologize if you have already addressed my thoughts.

Best!!


Me- 34 W-33
S15 S10 S6
Married- 11 Together- 18
Bomb- 6-2011
WAW moves out- 8-2011

"Nothing in the Universe can stop you from letting go and starting over at anytime"- Guy Finley