Good post ^^^^^ mishka. Give him as much space as you possibly can and detach emotionally from his actions as much as possible. Maybe give yourself a short time line goal say until Feb. 28 you are going to not take personally anything he says or does and you will not pursue him. Just focus on you and the kids. Due to him moving and his job, logistics, etc.. I imagine he is going to be a little bit volatile during the next month or two so the more you can detach I think the better off you will be.
