Any dream interpreters/DB people out there? Here's a dream my W told me about this morning and to her it was a bad dream:
She was on an outcropping overlooking our street. I was putting the trash out and I was talking on the phone to another woman. I was telling her I was suceeding in manipulating my W to where I want her.
My W typically has highly intuitive dreams and places high value on them.
Hearing this, I feel like I should back off for a spell. Her and I are together round the clock and if I thought or feared I was being manipulated I wouldn't like it. Even though we are together so much I haven't been pressuring her in any anti-DB way but my presence alone must be causing her to question where she is with me in some fashion, so I figure I quietly back away without making a big deal about it.
I know that part of the definition of detach means my emotions should not be tied to her actions, and they're not here. I still want to deal with our sitch in a sensible way that works for both of us however.
