I don't want to chime in w/ my .02 WHG, I just want you to know I'm sorry for where you are and am feeling for you. I hope this Sun. goes as well as it can.
When my WAW & I told my 3 kids, 14,9,&6 it was one of the hardest things I ever had to do but I think what is most important are your actions with them over the following days, weeks, months, etc.. They will see that you are there for them and always will be no matter what and they will have that security and love and follow your lead in knowing that they will be ok.
