I don't think what you did was selfish, you made a mistake, you apologized and then rectified it.

How would you not move out if she has told you she wants you to without putting pressure on her?

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss