It's certainly an idea 2TP... sort of throwing one's self on the sword as it were? The issue right now is the bed question. We don't have a spare one, and she refuses to get one. I don't know if it would be received or just consumed as so many other things have been. Of course it would only be temporary until they move. Of course if they don't move it becomes more permanent...

Though it would save me having to lug the damn treadmill up two flights of stairs smile

I will have to think on it. I know this sounds so petty but I am so attached to my bed smile Not to mention that when my son wakes up he comes and gets me first, always. Of course maybe it would be good for him to wake up mommy at 5:45 in the morning for a while smile Get her used to that experience smile

I had planned to get a used bedframe and mattress for SD's room after they move so that when the kids stay over there's a place for her to sleep. I could just use anything I get in there easy enough.

It would be a pretty dramatic move I'll give you that. The more I type the more I am warming to it. One complaint she's had is that I don't decisively deal with problems until she can't handle them anymore, then I intercede.


Married 6 together 8
Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both
SS12, SD10, S6
Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann)
W moved out: 2/18/12
D final: 11/12/12
Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD