Just dropped by to thank you for visiting my thread.
Maybe I'll even post to it myself some day What does one say (post) when nothing has changed in ten years?
Oh well.
At least you still have your sense of humor!
Originally Posted By: ANS
You do deserve better than a rebound relationship. And RC does too. Just like you said. But how confused is RC, really? Are you just assuming that he'll only give you a portion of his heart? I don't know. You're probably the best judge of that.
I don't know if he is confused now or not. Sometimes I think he knows how he feels, but he is also not going to do something he would regret. I am guessing he might be a little scared too - I know I would be. I feel like he will stick with this other R, wherever it leads, and he will invest in our friendship along the way.
As for giving me a portion of his heart....I just don't think he can do more if he is investing time with J. If that were over, then maybe, but for now, as your delightful daughter would have said "That (thing) is like that because that's what it's like. That's all!"
Sorry my French accent is rusty.
For now (and maybe for always), he will give me the parts of his heart that he can, but I think it will be in friendship.
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
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What does one say (post) when nothing has changed in ten years?
