I am so glad that I am not alone. He can take a compliment and turn it around.

He will occasionally apologize as well, far and few in between.

When I am around him, I am find myself rehearsing in my head about what I am going to say to him, so he doesn't think I am criticizing him.

Receive a call from H on my way to class tonight. He asked if I got out early if I could come by and help with our D and he said that I could spend the night if I wanted to. I said sure, because I knew I wasn't getting out early. But it turned out I did get out a little early. But decided to come straight home and let him deal with her.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)