Hello and thank you for your advice.

I am finding that saying less is working, but I must admit that it's a challenge not to fall into old habits by asking "what's wrong".

I'll look into the medical issues and trying to reach my daughter. I would really like to let her know how sorry I am.

My W is really trying and I can only imagine how hard this is for her. I admit that my pity party needs to stop.

Thanks again.