Just dropped by to thank you for visiting my thread.
Maybe I'll even post to it myself some day What does one say (post) when nothing has changed in ten years?
Oh well.
As for you.... I don't think you split from RC for long enough that you should feel like (or even close to) "the OW in this situation.." You also said
Originally Posted By: MAL
I don't blame everything on him because I have a lot of fault in this current situation.
IMHO, it's really not a matter of blame. It is what it is. When my second daughter was real little, she said something that I'll never forget. It was in French (her mother tongue), but it translates to something like: "That (thing) is like that because that's what it's like. That's all!"
You do deserve better than a rebound relationship. And RC does too. Just like you said. But how confused is RC, really? Are you just assuming that he'll only give you a portion of his heart? I don't know. You're probably the best judge of that.
Originally Posted By: MAL
Whatever happens, I think we will always be friends. That sounds like a good thing, but it's hard being friends when you love someone. Talk about painful.
What does one say (post) when nothing has changed in ten years?