The best thing you can do is give her, her space. Do not pursue or you will just chase her further away. Do not contact her unless you have kids together.

My H left me 6 mos ago and I pleaded, begged and cried for him not to leave. And the only thing I did was push him right out the door. I left him alone and let him contact me and now he is making baby steps.

Sorry you find yourself here.


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)