Thank you Snodderly and Brookie! And no Brookie, I don't mind you saying it at all. You're right.
I suspect a significant amount of my problem is that I'm at the end of my sabbatical and really getting bored, which is crazy because I still have a lot of book to write/revise, but I'm anxious for a change of pace...I go back to work Friday and teaching Monday with 4 new classes and about 80-85 new students, and I think that will occupy my mind more fully, it will certainly get me out of the house more, and I'll stop having all this downtime which seems to trigger my paying attention to him.
I am fully ready should he contact me again and will be as succinct as possible.
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying