I would tell her about the promotion once it is confirmed. I would not ask about her filing for a D. You will know if you get served. Being in limbo will not be fun. It can take about 1 to 2 months to be served.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden