Expecting news regarding my promotion at any time. Don't know if I have mentioned this but it involves a major change in the focus of my work and my re-assignment to an altogether different company within my company. Not sure how to handle accepting it when it comes. Should I wait and consult my W?
Will this promotion move you to a different location? If this promotion will affect your family, then I believe you should tell your W that you did received one. You could just tell her you were offered, and see how she responds. She may tell you at that point that she filed again.
My advise is not to prevent her or to get her to do anything, and it's not some method of DBing, but to me, it sounds like the right thing a man should do. She's living under your roof and she's the mother of your kids. Any time there is a major change in your life, such as this, you should tell her as long as the kids are growing up. Don't get into a R discussion.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
