How about you? How long would you be prepared to share your husband with another woman?

This is extraordinarily tough, I know. Been there and done that for 18 months then struggled with violent thought towards my wife for a couple of years afterwards. Good luck with the DB coach. Mine (Jodie) really, really helped me in my darkest hours.

Hang in there and love those three little girls. Your H is incapable at the moment of realizing what he's doing to you.

Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)