No, it's not. It turns people off and alienates them. It makes even minor issues into battles that must be won. I find that I win many Phryrric victories. It also doesn't usually get me any closer to a solution since I've been putting so much energy into being right.
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD