Shoot... I didn't answer the "being right" question. That is a problem for me... I've long had a need to be right. I fight that even now. I find myself overdoing the parenting role simply to "the right" one in how the kids are treated in all this.
I have been working on the need to be right and my righteousness. When you're doing that you're also judging which is a quality I know my W does not like about me.
Okay, then we go back and forth around the "don't care" issue.....
IF....this is a quality that SHE doesn't like about you...
